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Hick in New York City, Part 4-- It's all Greek to me!

Fri Nov 6, 2009 6:57 PM EST
travel, humor, greek-orthodox, greek-language, greek-restaurant
By Dowser

A little restaurant in NYC. These were fun!

This fellow is a little older than my new friend, and has a hat-- but the kindness in the eyes is the same.

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The next morning, my travel alarm started beeping at 6 am NYC time, which is 5 am Owensboro time. I had just begun to sleep well—typical. Most of the night, I had tossed and turned, visions of the verdant hills of Kentucky and the blue Ohio River slipping below the plane, mustached men reaching for my throat, huge cars rattling, the speeding race on the expressway, and shouting cabbies rolling through my brain like an endless movie. Plus, I had waked up frequently, just knowing there was a cockroach in the bed somewhere. Long about 2 am, I had turned all the lights on, thinking that maybe that would keep the cockroaches away, and had finally fallen to sleep about 3:30 am.

I carefully dressed for my big meeting of the day in a business suit, and stuffed a change of field clothes in my small carryon bag for a trip to the well field. Leaving the room, I made my way down to the lobby, to inquire about a restaurant. (The night before, I had stayed in the hotel, timid in the darkness, and had made a nice meal of peanut butter brought from home, eaten with my fingers, because the kitchenette had no kitchen gear. Absolutely none. $90 a night for no table knife in the kitchen? Hrrrmmph!)

At the front desk, I inquired about available restaurants nearby. Actually, my exact words were along the lines of, "If I run down the road apiece, can I find some breakfast?" The woman at the desk looked at me blankly. Ok, try again. Using my best TV announcer/non-accent voice, I asked, "Ma'am, are there any restaurants within walking distance of the hotel?" Again, she looked at me blankly. I wondered, am I not speaking English?

Finally, the manager walked around the end of the desk and asked, "Can I help you?" Still in my best TV announcer voice, I asked him. He said, "Just go down the street and you'll find restaurants." But he gave me a sharp look, like what was wrong with me? Didn't I know that? Well, no, I didn't. I had no idea where to go, and just hoped I didn't have to pry that monster car out of the parking lot and have to parallel park it somewhere. If I could walk, it would be much easier.

I walked down the street past a lot of little shops, and finally found Nick's Palace, which looked to be open. There were people everywhere, and there didn't appear to be any open seats, certainly not any little bistro-like tables for two, where I could sit. Apparently, everyone just sat down and ate together, whether they knew each other or not. This is not customary at home, but ok, I'm game. It looked like everyone walked up to the main cash register, placed their order, found a place to sit, and then went back up to the counter to get their meal. There was no menu hanging up, so everyone must just ask for what they want. All I wanted was two eggs over easy, toast, bacon, and a cup of coffee. Please. So, I joined the line at the counter.

Right as I got up to the counter, the man who had been sitting and eating at a table near the counter, stood up and walked out. The dark-haired man behind the cash register, yelled after him, "HEY, you've got to pay!" The man just went out the door, and kept going. "HEY, YOU! You've got to pay!"

The counterman yelled back at the help in the kitchen, "He didn't pay!" One of the men in the kitchen strode out, and yelled, "Go get him! Make him pay!" The counterman was indignant, and I really couldn't blame him. You have to pay for what you eat. But the man's clothing was ragged--maybe he was just hungry. Back home, we don't let people go hungry if we can help it.

Everyone else in the restaurant ignored the situation, keeping their eyes to themselves and their plates. The counterman exclaimed again to an old man sitting next to the counter, "blahdeddyblahdeddyblahblah!" The old man looked up in disgust, and then—why, I do not know, but something prompted me, "I'll pay for his meal."

At this, everyone in the immediate vicinity of the counter stopped eating and looked at me. The counterman glared at me furiously, "Are you with that man?"

"No, sir, I'm not. But I'll pay for his meal." I said, feeling rightly that all eyes were upon me. What had I done? "I don't mind. Maybe he is homeless-- he looked hungry and tired. I'll pay for his meal, and that way, it will be alright. You won't have to chase him down."

The counterman looked at me cynically, and I repeated, "I have no idea who that man was. But I will pay for his meal. How much was it?" He rang up the charge and held his hand out for the money. I gave it to him, fumbling down in my purse, and he snatched it out of my hand.

The old man next to the counter barked an unintelligible word, but it sounded something like, "Barrrrarrracka!" The counterman stopped in his tracks and looked at the old man. He then carefully put the money in the cash drawer, closed it, and asked, "Whaddayawannaeat?" Everyone else in the restaurant returned to their meals, the little break in the monotony over.

I said, "Two eggs, over easy, with toast and bacon, and a cup of coffee, please." He looked at me blankly. So again, in my best TV announcer voice, I said, "I would like two eggs, scrambled, please, with toast, bacon, and coffee." He thought a moment, raised an eyebrow at me. I said, "Scrambled", and made the motion of beating eggs in a bowl. He nodded and wrote my order down. Funny how he understood me perfectly when the conversation dealt with money.

I looked for a place to sit, but all the seats were taken. The old man next to the counter motioned me to him. I walked over to his table, and he stood. He was wearing a black robe, and a large cross hung from his neck. His gray beard was truly magnificent! He opened his arms and waved me to the seat across the table from him. I sat quietly, smiled at him, and thanked him.

The old man sat back down, and opened his newspaper on the table in front of him. I waited quietly for my meal, which came out almost immediately. The counterman opened his mouth to tell me my order was here, but the old man gave him a sharp look, so he brought it to me at the table, handed me silverware, and then brought coffee with cream. I thanked him and he returned to his post.

The old man was looking at me, and his eyes were kind. I said, "Thank you for letting me sit with you." He looked up at the counterman, who came back to the table. The old man motioned me to repeat, and the counterman translated. Greek? I looked down at the newspaper—it was Greek! I knew the alphabet! Nothing else, but it was a start! I pointed to the letters in the newspaper, "sigma, alpha, nu, alpha, theta..."

The old man was delighted! I read out the letters and he pronounced the word. I repeated the word. He nodded helpfully, and we did another one. We played this game while I ate my meal, and then it was time to leave. I stood, and looked for the counterman. "Would you tell the man that I have enjoyed sharing his table, and that I thank him for his kindness?"

The old man listened carefully to his translation. Then, he spoke to the counterman, who translated for me, "My father says that you are to come here every day while you are here. This is our restaurant. He knows that you have traveled far, and he wishes to see you again. Come here for breakfast, every day, and he will teach you Greek."

Again, I thanked him for his kindness, and said that I would be very happy to see him the next day. Then the father stood, and motioned me toward him. He looked into my eyes, and gently made the sign of the cross on my forehead. He patted the side of my face, and leaned down and kissed my forehead. Tears filled my eyes, and I reached for his hand. I told him the only Greek word I knew, "Agape." Love. I held his hand and we nodded, both of us touched to the heart. Swift knowledge flashed, he knows that I am afraid and understands. My day was blessed. Whatever was before me, I could face it with courage.

I laid enough money on the table for the breakfast and a tip, and, smiling, went out the door to meet the day.

Next up: A fine Irish temper!

Links

The Saga of the Hick in New York City, Part 1

Part 2, How to rent a destroyer

Part 3, NASCAR racetrack, here I come, doo-dah, doo-dah

Part 5, A fine Irish temper!

Part 6, I said "crews", not "cruise"

Part 7, Alone in the dark

Part 8, 'Twas the luck o' the Irish that saved me!

Part 9, Friends at last

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Dowser

This is probably more touching than funny-- but this is the start of my first full day in the Big City.

I hope that you enjoy it!

  • 6 votes
Reply#1 - Fri Nov 6, 2009 6:59 PM EST
frostyone

touching indeed, good to know that there are nice people out there. Another wonderful read Dowser

  • 3 votes
#1.1 - Wed Nov 11, 2009 2:22 AM EST
Dowser

Thank you, frosty! Every day that I was able to see that man, my day began well. He was a lovely gentleman, and I was so very privileged to know him. He's got to be dead by now, but I hope he knows what a wonderful difference he made in my life.

  • 3 votes
#1.2 - Wed Nov 11, 2009 9:23 AM EST
One Miscreant

For some strange reason, I was going to wait till the end of this tale to comment. Maybe it was because, I've not read anything of yours, I don't know. This is a fabulous story, so I couldn't wait that long.

The realities of modern life are such, that cynicism will easily find a way into ones view of things. In a conversation with a friend of mine once, about the "state of our society", we came to a conclusion. That ill will, hate and evil will never claim victory, if there is one nice person left. We also decided, that as bad as "things" are made to be today, there are many, many nice people all over the place. Thank you for proving our theory and for sharing this story. Now, on to the rest of your tale.

  • 1 vote
#1.3 - Wed Nov 11, 2009 7:42 PM EST
Dowser

Thank you so much, One Miscreant, for your kind words.

There are many nice people everywhere-- sometimes, it just seems that they are hard to find...

I will look forward to seeing!

  • 2 votes
#1.4 - Wed Nov 11, 2009 7:46 PM EST
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chelli

Yes, very touching Dowser. Something about Karma--you sent a gift out to someone else, and look what returned to you! Thanks so much for sharing this wonderful chapter in your story.

  • 3 votes
Reply#2 - Fri Nov 6, 2009 9:43 PM EST
Dowser

chelli, I think about that dear older man all the time. I know he would have to be gone now, it's been 27 years, but he was so very dear. There is more about him later-- but I really did love him, and he cared about me.

How did he know that I was so lost and afraid? I don't know how, but he did, and with his help, I was able to go on and do what I had to do.

I truly believe that everyone comes into our lives for a purpose-- and he sure came into mine and gave me a wonderful gift.

Take care, chelli! Thank you so much for your kind comment and understanding!

  • 3 votes
#2.1 - Fri Nov 6, 2009 10:58 PM EST
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Knowlton's Rangers

What a joyful read, I actually did tear up. You sure can tell a story. Thank you.

  • 1 vote
Reply#3 - Sat Nov 7, 2009 7:34 AM EST
Dowser

Dear Knowlton, thank you so much for your kind words.

I cried when writing it. I was so afraid and this man understood. He was such a lovely man, and I saw him almost every day. His whole family sort of adopted me. I was very lucky to find a small place of love and friendship there.

I still think of that man every day, and I've tried to take his lesson to heart. He had no idea that his kindness changed my life for the better.

Thanks for coming by--

  • 3 votes
#3.1 - Sat Nov 7, 2009 9:19 AM EST
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RDW-375737

What a great article...It was a joy to read...When I was 13, I spent 2 weeks living with a Greek family in Athens...I remember them as a very loving and caringgroup of people and the family had a Grandfather like you described...He and I pal'd up real quick and he took me all over Athens to play domino's with his cronies.

  • 2 votes
Reply#4 - Sat Nov 7, 2009 9:32 AM EST
Dowser

What lovely, heart-warming people! I'm so glad that you had a friend, too. I guess I predisposed to like old people, because I grew up with them, but they are very special!

Thank you for coming by RDW, and for your kind words!

  • 4 votes
#4.1 - Sat Nov 7, 2009 10:36 AM EST
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Soovivers

Dowser - what a wonderful meal you must have had with the man sitting across from you. It sounds like he did want you to be safe and to have a good trip. Very nicely told. I'm sure living it was even more heartwarming if that is possible.

(((((Dowser)))))

  • 4 votes
Reply#5 - Sat Nov 7, 2009 1:31 PM EST
Dowser

He was a very special person, and I got to see him almost everyday. I will never forget him, that's for sure.

Thank you so much for coming by, Soov-- your comments always make me feel very good!

  • 4 votes
#5.1 - Sat Nov 7, 2009 2:04 PM EST
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rottlady

What a great story, I can only imagine what that was like and to have the old man help you out is just a treasured moment for sure. Thanks for sharing this lovely poignant story. I loved it!

  • 4 votes
Reply#6 - Sat Nov 7, 2009 5:09 PM EST
Dowser

Rottlady, my tracker is giving me fits! I'm so sorry I missed your kind comment! He was a wonderful man, very generous and kind.

I know we were very different, but his heart spoke to mine, and that needs no language.

Thank you-- for coming to see me, dear rottlady!

  • 2 votes
#6.1 - Sun Nov 8, 2009 11:38 PM EST
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John Galt-1207820

(((((((Dowser)))))))

You did it again, what a great article, so much depth to it..the eyes are the window to the soul, for those who wish to see..It is so nice that both of your paths intersected at that point in your life..

had made a nice meal of peanut butter brought from home, eaten with my fingers, because the kitchenette had no knife..

That part made me sad.. usually if l am on the road l am equipped with..fork spoon and knife, (who knows when you might want a tomato or some fruit?) sugar packets, salt, creamer, etc..I just grab this stuff at a convenience store, Did they have a phone in the room? Could you have called for take out? Well l am glad that you shared this part of your life with us..and got a good breakfast in the morning.... thank you..

Looking forward to the next part...J.

  • 3 votes
Reply#7 - Sat Nov 7, 2009 9:17 PM EST
Dowser

John Galt, I couldn't figure out how to use the phone... Gosh, I was dumb, and too scared to go out at night. (And too tired...)

Silly me, I thought a kitchenette would have silverware. After this trip, I learned to be a bit better prepared. My biggest problem was that there were no convenience stores, and no groceries. I went on a trek for food, and could not find anything. I could find meat here and cheese there, but could find no bread. Not to mention that everything there was a far cry from what I was used to seeing at home. I had no idea what pastrami even was...

Oh well, I learned my way. :-)

Thank you so much for coming by, and for your kind words. Wait until you meet Mr. Laine! He was a riot!

  • 4 votes
#7.1 - Sat Nov 7, 2009 9:52 PM EST
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magz

Clipped to Writers Group.

  • 2 votes
Reply#8 - Sun Nov 8, 2009 1:31 PM EST
Dowser

Thank you again, magz. I hope someone else laughs! :-)

  • 1 vote
#8.1 - Sun Nov 8, 2009 2:19 PM EST
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PenniD

How great that you found a kind soul in NYC -- that is quite a feat, from my experience. This is getting really great, I must move on to the next installment.

  • 2 votes
Reply#9 - Sun Nov 8, 2009 6:44 PM EST
Dowser

He was so kind to me-- he AND his family. It was almost like they adopted me as their mascot, or something. My last morning with them, we all cried to say goodbye. I learned a little Greek, but don't remember anything now. He was a lovely man!

  • 2 votes
#9.1 - Sun Nov 8, 2009 11:34 PM EST
PenniD

My third husband was Greek, but he didn't teach me much of the language.

  • 2 votes
#9.2 - Mon Nov 9, 2009 12:58 AM EST
Dowser

Neat! My 1st cousin, once removed, married a lovely Greek woman! I always loved her! But I think, from what I know of her, that she would be difficult to live with.

I love that movie, "Big Fat Greek Wedding!"

The only reason I knew the word "Agape" is that it was part of the hobby gobby of my sorority in college-- Like slumdog millionaire, most of life's experiences can help you somewhere down the road!

  • 3 votes
#9.3 - Mon Nov 9, 2009 1:19 AM EST
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Tommy-1025077

Do you think maybe he recognized the fear from his own experience when he came to America? That is assuming he was not second generation emmigrant. It sounded like he didn't speak English at all or at least wasn't comfortable with the knowledge he had. Great story very touching.

A Small Town, Country Boy

  • 2 votes
Reply#10 - Sun Nov 8, 2009 7:11 PM EST
Dowser

I think that he was a very wise man that knew what it was to be afraid. I think he understood more English than he could speak-- or maybe he just understood the language of the heart.

His family was very hard-working, very decent and good people. I never expected to find people there that would be kind to strangers-- but I never expected to find all the people that were kind to me on this trip. I was very fortunate to find people with whom I could rely on for kindness.

Thank you, Tommy, I think he had lived through some very bad times, himself.

  • 3 votes
#10.1 - Sun Nov 8, 2009 11:41 PM EST
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LifeTravler

God does have a way of looking after things, doesn't He?

  • 2 votes
Reply#11 - Sun Nov 8, 2009 9:42 PM EST
Dowser

Yes He does, LT. I think I was guided to the dear old man, he gave me so much more than I could give him. I've always been drawn to spend time with elderly people-- maybe because I loved my grandparents so very much.

:-)

  • 3 votes
#11.1 - Sun Nov 8, 2009 11:49 PM EST
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Dubbya R

Another fine piece of writing Dowser.

You've put a lot of thought and feeling into these, and it shows.

  • 3 votes
Reply#12 - Mon Nov 9, 2009 12:05 AM EST
Dowser

Thank you, Dubbya. I've been writing from my heart-- sort of a catharsis of feeling for that poor young woman who tried so hard all those years ago. (me.)

I've had a wonderful life-- maybe it is time that I shared some of the fabulous people that I met on the way!

You included, of course! Thank you, dear friend. :-)

  • 4 votes
#12.1 - Mon Nov 9, 2009 12:14 AM EST
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bitemore

Dowser, the story is a masterpiece! This was 27 years ago? That's when NYC was a not-so-friendly place, but you sure did make it look both nice and somewhat coarse, the way it really was back then. At that time, I lived about 25 miles north of the city, and actually went there occasionally.

If you get the chance, you should post links to all the other parts of this tale on each installment... it would make it easier for folks to navigate, and I can assure you, this story is worth the effort.

{{{{{Dowser}}}}}

  • 4 votes
Reply#13 - Mon Nov 9, 2009 9:00 AM EST
Dowser

What a wonderful suggestion! Thank you!

Thank you so much for coming by-- and yes 27 years ago. I'm sure a LOT has changed! Where did you live? Was it near Great Neck?

  • 3 votes
#13.1 - Mon Nov 9, 2009 9:19 AM EST
bitemore

#13.1: "Was it near Great Neck?"

No... it was Ossining, in Westchester County (I left there in 1991). Last time I was in NYC was 2002, we stayed 5 days in Midtown, and as it was only 9 months after 9-11, the city was still pretty much in a state of shock, and the people were unbelievably sweet.

One day as we were on our way to wherever, we were across the street from a fire house, waiting for the "walk" signal to cross the street. Next to the fire house was a bagpipe player, playing "Amazing Grace." It was so poignant... there was a placard with the names of fallen firemen from that station. The light changed, and we crossed the street. When the piper stopped playing, I decided I had to give the fire house $20... they weren't soliciting. Far from it. The fireman tried to refuse my $20, but I kept insisting. Finally I told him to use it to buy donuts for the crew, whatever he wanted, but I wasn't leaving until he accepted it. He sighed, looked at me for a long moment, then motioned for me to follow him. He led me to a locker in the back, opened it, and took out a red aluminum bracelet, inscribed to the memories of the lives lost on 9-11, and he handed me the bracelet, and put the $20 in the locker where the bracelet had been.

I didn't stop crying for several blocks, and that bracelet is on top of our entertainment center, front and center, in a place of honor.

Needless to say, I am very, very fond of New York.

  • 4 votes
#13.2 - Mon Nov 9, 2009 11:36 AM EST
Dowser

Bitey, that is a wonderful story-- you should turn that into an article. It brings tears to my eyes, just thinking about it.

I have reassured myself, over and over, that the lovely men I knew at Great Neck were not there a the World Trade Center. I can only hope that they survived.

In all honesty, almost everyone I met was kind to me. Most of the people were in a hurry, but not trying to be mean. I think the stress of living all jammed up together like that would do me in. (I'm more used to space...)

Thank you so much, for stopping by. I, too, am fond of the people there-- and only hope that I somehow manage to convey that in these articles.

  • 3 votes
#13.3 - Mon Nov 9, 2009 11:51 AM EST
bitemore

#13.3: "...and only hope that I somehow manage to convey that in these articles."

That you do, dear Dowser. That you do.

  • 3 votes
#13.4 - Mon Nov 9, 2009 11:59 AM EST
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Sydney - 5

Dowser,

Okay. You snuck up on me with this one. First USAF makes me cry. Then you. Sheesh!

But seriously, this was a beautiful, poignant piece. I enjoyed it so much. Beautifully written.

  • 2 votes
Reply#14 - Wed Nov 11, 2009 7:36 PM EST
Dowser

Thank you, Sydney, I am truly grateful to have known this man!

BTW, I loved your article about Sesame Street!

  • 3 votes
#14.1 - Wed Nov 11, 2009 7:59 PM EST
Sydney - 5

double post

  • 2 votes
#14.2 - Wed Nov 11, 2009 9:06 PM EST
Sydney - 5

Sounds like the two of you had a special encounter. Very touching. And you did an excellent job describing it. It's a piece with real humanity.

Thanks!

How are you today?

  • 2 votes
#14.3 - Wed Nov 11, 2009 9:09 PM EST
Dowser

Yes, and our lovely friendship continued throughout the time I was there-- I learned a lot of Greek, but remember none of it, naturally. I got along ok with "Agape".

Right of this minute, Ugh. Next dose in 45 minutes, then I'll be better. This is wearing.

  • 3 votes
#14.4 - Wed Nov 11, 2009 9:09 PM EST
Sydney - 5

Yes, chest infections are wearing. I'm glad the medication is working for you. Thank goodness we live in an age when we have antibiotics.

  • 2 votes
#14.5 - Wed Nov 11, 2009 9:19 PM EST
Dowser

I have been thinking of my great-great grandmother who died of pneumonia. I can see why. ;-)

I know the prednisone is helping, but I HATE to take it.

  • 3 votes
#14.6 - Wed Nov 11, 2009 9:24 PM EST
Sydney - 5

I can relate.I was like that with the doxcycline I was taking for the Lyme. I thought the doxy was gonna kill me.

I'm trying to remember if Deeters was taking pred when he had pneumonia last. Don't recall. Maybe just the antibiotic...It's great that it's helping. It should be doing something good!

  • 2 votes
#14.7 - Wed Nov 11, 2009 9:31 PM EST
Dowser

Thanks, Sydney-- I've also got some asthma thing going on... I'm taking albuterol, prednisone, antibiotics, etc. ICK.

I love you, Sydney. Sure wish I was up there, rather than down here where the weather is weird.

  • 3 votes
#14.8 - Wed Nov 11, 2009 9:34 PM EST
Sydney - 5

Dowser,

I wish you were up here too. It's actually been rather nice here for early Nov. We had several days of 60's-almost 70 degrees. And not really all that bad right now. Weird, too, but in a nice way.

I'd make you chicken soup. :)

  • 2 votes
#14.9 - Thu Nov 12, 2009 5:16 PM EST
Dowser

Chicken soup sounds good! Before he left to go to NJ, I made my husband go and buy me some canned...

It has been pretty down here, but weird, too. Cold, but no frost-- (I'm thinking that frost may clear up what ails me), damp. Oh well, one thing about living here, if you wait long enough, the weather changes! (Sometimes in an hour or two...)

(((((((((Sydney))))))))))) You're a good friend. I love you!

  • 1 vote
#14.10 - Thu Nov 12, 2009 5:44 PM EST
frostyone

don't fear Dowser I'll be by later on to spread some snowy goodness around..LOL

  • 3 votes
#14.11 - Thu Nov 12, 2009 7:05 PM EST
Dowser

I will look forward to it with pleasure, dear frostyone!

(((((((frostyone)))))))))))

  • 3 votes
#14.12 - Thu Nov 12, 2009 7:06 PM EST
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MoCowgirl-1193719

Back home, we don't let people go hungry if we can help it.

Ain't that the truth........ it is still that way in the small community I now reside in ...

It brings tears to my eyes every time I read comments by people who have NO compassion for people less fortunate than themselves.... and they have a lack of understanding that it can happen to anyone...even them.

((((((Dowser)))))))

  • 1 vote
Reply#15 - Sun Dec 6, 2009 4:38 PM EST
Dowser

You are so very right! I have several friends, (and I love them, so please don't think I'm being mean), but they just can't imagine what it is like to be poor. They wouldn't know how to be poor.

There but the grace of God go us.

  • 1 vote
#15.1 - Sun Dec 6, 2009 6:47 PM EST
G. H.

Dowser, it sounds like you had someone upstairs looking out for you! I'm so glad. Yes, older people are wonderful. Wise and endearing, it feels weird to *almost* be one! LOL I hope my life's lessons have stayed with me, as yours surely have! Such a warm and lovely story. ♥

  • 1 vote
#15.2 - Wed Dec 16, 2009 1:51 AM EST
Dowser

That there was 'a greater hand' in my affairs was especially obvious in this trip-- but also obvious every day... The wreck that happens in front of me that I escaped, the slick spot that I didn't hit when walking, the turns and twists of life, are, to me, evidence that, indeed, someone is looking out for me. :-)

Thanks so much for coming by! And thank you for your kind comment!

((((((((((((((GH)))))))))))))

#15.3 - Wed Dec 16, 2009 8:37 AM EST
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